Weeds That Look Like Wheat
The parable of the wheat and the tares, and how to tell the difference
Wheat and TaresDavid P · July 13, 2026
The trick of the weed
Jesus told a story about a farmer whose enemy came at night, while everyone slept, and planted weeds in his wheat field (Matthew 13:24–30). But not just any weeds. The weed in the story is darnel — a plant so close in appearance to wheat that even a farmer cannot tell them apart until the heads of grain finally form. For most of the growing season, the two plants look identical.
That detail is the whole story. The enemy did not plant thorns. He did not plant anything ugly or obvious. He planted something convincing — something that looks so much like the real thing that you cannot sort them by looking. You can only wait for the fruit.
When the farmer's servants discover the weeds, they ask the question we would all ask: should we pull them up? And the farmer says no. "Nay; lest while ye gather up the tares, ye root up also the wheat with them. Let both grow together until the harvest" (Matthew 13:29–30). The roots are tangled underground. Pull one and you kill the other. So the weeds stay, growing right beside the wheat, until the end — and the sorting belongs to the harvesters, not the servants.
Most of us were taught that the weeds are wicked people and the wheat is righteous people. Hold that thought, because Jesus' own explanation of the story leads somewhere more surprising — and far more hopeful.
What the weeds actually are
When the disciples asked Jesus privately what the story meant, he said the good seed represents "the children of the kingdom; but the tares are the children of the wicked one" (Matthew 13:38). Children of the devil. That sounds like people.
But ask one more question, and the answer changes everything: what does the devil actually father? What are his children?
The scriptures answer with one title, given over and over. Jesus said of the devil: "he is a liar, and the father of it" (John 8:44) — the father of the lie. The Book of Mormon says it three times, like a birth certificate filed in triplicate: he is "the father of all lies" (2 Nephi 2:18; Ether 8:25; Moses 4:4). In all of scripture, the devil's only named offspring are lies.
So follow the logic. The weeds are the children of the wicked one. The children of the wicked one are lies. The weeds are lies.
Not people. Lies. What the enemy plants in the field, while we sleep, are convincing false ideas — justifications, half-truths, sentences that sound wise and grow up tangled with the truth. "God is holding out on you." "That person brought their suffering on themselves." "There's no other way." "You'll never really change." "It's better if someone else pays the price." Every one of these is a seed, and every one looks remarkably like wheat when it's young.
And the field? Jesus said "the field is the world" — and the world's lies get planted in the only soil that grows anything: human hearts. Yours and mine. Which means the wheat and the weeds are not two groups of people standing on opposite sides of a line. They are two kinds of seed, growing together, in every single heart in the field.
Why we are forbidden to pull
Now the farmer's strange instruction makes perfect sense — and it becomes one of the most protective commandments God ever gave.
If weeds were people, "let both grow together" would just mean tolerating bad neighbors. But since weeds are lies growing in people, pulling up a weed means pulling up a person — and the roots of a lie wrap around the soul that believed it. You cannot rip out someone's false ideas by force without tearing the person apart. Every attempt in history to purge the field — every inquisition, every shunning, every family member cut off to punish their beliefs — has killed wheat. The farmer knew it would. That is why the sickle was taken out of our hands.
There is another reason, and it is the most hopeful sentence in this whole subject: people are not weeds, so people can change. Real darnel can never become wheat — but the scriptures are full of souls who did. Alma worked for a wicked king before he founded a church. Zeezrom made his living on lies before he became a missionary. A whole nation of warriors called the Anti-Nephi-Lehies buried their weapons in the ground and became the most faithful people in the Book of Mormon. If we had been allowed to harvest early, every one of them would have been burned as a weed. God waits — not because he cannot tell the difference, but because as long as the field is still growing, any heart can dig the lie out of its own soil and let the wheat take over.
The harvest is real, and it is coming. But it belongs to the Lord of the field, and to no one else. Our job was never to sort our neighbors. Our job is to learn to recognize the seeds — starting with the ones landing in us.
How to tell the seeds apart
If you can't tell weeds from wheat by looking, how do you ever know which is which?
A prophet named Alma answered that question with an experiment anyone can run. He said to treat an idea like a seed and plant it — take it into your heart and pay attention to what it does to you. A good seed, he said, will begin to "enlarge my soul; yea, it beginneth to enlighten my understanding, yea, it beginneth to be delicious to me" (Alma 32:28). Truth makes the soul feel bigger — more open, more light, more alive. And "every seed bringeth forth unto its own likeness" (Alma 32:31): what a seed does to you reveals what it is.
Lies do the opposite. They make the soul contract. They might excite you, pressure you, or flatter you — but underneath, something in you tightens and closes. The scriptures have a word for that feeling. When a voice told young Nephi to do something terrible, he wrote: "I shrunk" (1 Nephi 4:10). His soul pulled back. That recoil was not weakness. It was the God-given instrument in his chest, reading the seed correctly.
So the test is simple enough for a child and deep enough for a lifetime: when an idea lands in you, notice which direction your soul moves. Does it open, or does it close? Does it grow, or does it shrink? Truth enlarges. Lies constrict. God built the gauge into you.
And lies have one more tell — a kind of accent they cannot hide. Listen for three things arriving together: only two options ("it's this or disaster"), no time ("you must decide now"), and nothing left ("the resources are gone, the ways have run out"). God almost never talks like that. His voice persuades, it is patient, and it welcomes questions — "the wisdom that is from above is first pure, then peaceable, gentle, and easy to be intreated" (James 3:17). Easy to be entreated: you can ask God's voice, "Is there another way?" and it is never offended. A lying voice hates that question, because lies survive only at high speed. When pressure says now, or else — slow down. All through scripture, God's signature move is the way nobody saw: the sea splits, the ram appears in the thicket, the answer arrives that neither option predicted. If a voice tells you the ways have run out, you already know one thing about that voice.
There is one more test, and it is the master key — because Jesus said that everything God has ever said hangs on just two commandments: love God with all your heart, and love your neighbor as yourself. "On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets" (Matthew 22:37–40). All of it. Which means every true seed, followed to its fruit, will grow more of those two loves — and every lie, however holy it sounds, will quietly cut one of them. That is the weed's one unfixable weakness: it cannot serve both loves, because its father cannot. So run any idea through the two commandments and watch what it asks of you. Does it move you toward God and toward people — or does it use one love as an excuse to abandon the other? "I'm defending God's honor" — by treating his children with contempt? Weed. "I love this person too much to involve God in it" — a love that needs God kept out? Weed. "He deserves his suffering" — a sentence that closes your hand toward a neighbor? Weed, no matter how much justice-language it wears. The devil's cleverest seeds always quote one commandment against the other; God's word never does, because in him the two loves are one thing. Any voice that makes you choose between loving God and loving people is not from the God who is love — and any seed that grows both loves at once, wherever you found it, came from his hand.
The field you can actually tend
So the parable, read the way Jesus explained it, is not a warning about the bad people out there. It is a description of every heart — including the ones at your dinner table, and including yours — where truth and lies grow side by side, roots tangled, waiting for fruit.
That changes the work. We put down the sickle of judgment, because it was never ours: no judging our neighbors as weeds, no purging the people we disagree with, no giving up on anyone — because no one is born darnel, and the burning is not ours to schedule. And we pick up the gardener's tools instead: we test the seeds that land in us, we starve the lies and water the truth, we learn the sound of the voice that never panics — and we treat every person in the field, however tangled their crop looks right now, as wheat that hasn't finished growing.
The harvest has already begun
Here is the part of the parable most people miss: the harvest is not one event. It is two — and in our day, they happen in a surprising order.
In Matthew's telling, the tares are gathered first and burned. But when the Lord retold this parable in our own dispensation, he changed the sequence on purpose: "Let the wheat and the tares grow together until the harvest is fully ripe; then ye shall first gather out the wheat from among the tares, and after the gathering of the wheat, behold and lo, the tares are bound in bundles, and the field remaineth to be burned" (D&C 86:7). First the wheat is gathered in. The burning waits.
And notice: there are two sickles in the revelations, held by two different sets of hands. The sickle of judgment — the one that cuts down and burns — belongs to angels, and the Lord says they are standing by for it even now: "the angels are waiting the great command to reap down the earth, to gather the tares that they may be burned" (D&C 38:12). Waiting. Not yet released. That sickle will never be handed to you or me.
But there is another sickle, and this one is handed to us — the gathering one: "the field is white already to harvest; and lo, he that thrusteth in his sickle with his might, the same layeth up in store that he perisheth not, but bringeth salvation to his soul" (D&C 4:4). God never lets us cut anything down. He invites us to gather everything in. And the qualifications for that work tell you everything about what kind of work it is — not credentials, not rank, not office: "faith, hope, charity and love, with an eye single to the glory of God, qualify him for the work." The only entrance requirement is desire: "if ye have desires to serve God ye are called to the work" (D&C 4:3, 5). You do not need permission to start loving people toward the truth. The desire is the calling.
Now — and we offer this plainly as our own belief — we think we are living inside that harvest right now, and that the angels of D&C 38, waiting for their command, are waiting on this generation's field. Think about what the internet and social media actually are, in the language of this parable: for the first time in history, nearly every seed ever planted — every idea about God, about sin, about repentance, about what a human being is worth — is growing in the open at once, in one worldwide field, where everyone can watch the fruit come in. Lies that once took generations to reveal themselves now ripen in front of the whole earth in a few years; you can watch a false idea bear its bitter fruit in real time, on a screen. And truth travels the same roads: scripture searchable in every language, testimony crossing borders in seconds, honest questions asked out loud that people once carried alone their whole lives.
It is loud, and it is messy, and much of it is painful — but look at what is happening underneath the noise: people's understanding of God is being refined. Old, easy assumptions about who is wheat and who is a weed are failing the fruit test in public. Shallow ideas about sin — that it is a list of broken rules instead of a heart believing lies — are being outgrown by people who never opened a theology book. Repentance is being rediscovered as healing instead of humiliation. The heads of grain are forming on every stalk at once, and the whole world can finally see which is which. That is what a ripening field looks like. The sorting of ideas has gone worldwide — while the sorting of people stays exactly where the parable put it: in the hands of waiting angels and a patient Lord.
Which tells us what to do with the years we've been given. Not to panic at the noise — a ripening field was always going to be loud. Not to grab the wrong sickle — the burning was never our assignment, and it still isn't. But to take the one that is offered, with its beautifully short list of qualifications, and get into the whitened field: gather, don't cut; test seeds, don't judge souls; help the people around us learn to tell wheat from weeds in their own hearts, gently, the way we'd want it done in ours. The angels are waiting on their command. We already have ours.
There is a reason we've begun here. The Book of Mormon — the book we love most — opens with one of the strangest and most troubling stories in all of scripture: a good young man, a dark street, a voice, and a sword. For two hundred years, readers have argued about that story. But read it with this parable in your hands — knowing that weeds are lies, that lies have an accent, and that your soul was built to shrink at the wrong seed — and the story at the front of the book turns out to be the most carefully planted lesson in it.
That story is where we'll go next.
By their fruits ye shall know them.
Reflections
Gentle, in good faith — hold every offering, and one another, with love.
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